Daily Struggles

Many of the couples in the world experience this cycle of abuse it is common but the cycle is not widely discussed except in counseling circles. Often that is well after the marriage or relationship has already turned sour.
Many times it is court ordered counseling with the intent to help but rarely is that effective in saving the marriage. I am not a licensed counselor but I have seen many cases of this in friends and acquaintances. Until recently I have not heard the first hand information on this cycle.

abuse-cycle

I just learned of this cycle and hope that someone might learn from it

It’s been a ongoing thing with my daughter we never seem to agree on anything .She acts like I owe her for all that has gone wrong in her life .Even though I did what  a parent is suppose to do and say “no”,”stop that “,”If you do that one more time”? …………I could ever hardly get her to stay home ,stop smoking cigarettes,wear some different clothes ,It always came down to “What she had to have”? or she would do something to frustrate me in order to give in just for her to leave me alone ,that was not good, I know.! she was at an age to where I stop spanking them .How old is to old to spank ?I chose the age 13 ,WTF? Is that to old ?Should I have been more strict?I was a  single parent ,raising 4 kids and worked 2 jobs to provide for them with a ,home,food,shoes,tiolet paper,the list goes on and on ………. That is called the cycle of life ,Now she acts like .I’m suppose to provide for her and my grandson,I dont want to be mean and so “no” all the time ,but is that ”WHAT BEING A GRANPARENT  CONSISTS OF?”IM going to post short stories like this thru out this site .I hope they can be read by mothers or  daughters or there son, If they can relate in some shape,form,or fashion from:lucyhttp://lucys.catcodesigns.net/