Daily Struggles

Sometimes we create our own problems…

We may look at an issue and come to an assumption of what is real.

This happens alot when we don’t know how to properly do or deal with a certain situation. This is common to form your own conclusion. We must do this in order to live and take care of the tasks at hand.

That is why there are experts but believe it or not even the experts don’t have a grasp of everything.

Take for instance the Painter he might not know how to properly overhaul an engine or the Networking expert might not be able to look at PHP5 code and modify it correctly. Many people are so educated in one specified area that they find it hard to do or even conceive doing another task.

Maybe this is a testament as to our human learning curve. Whatever you would call it it is in all of us.

Where we go when an issue arises might be our friends or the experts but when we do we have put our trust in the knowledge and experience that the solution will work. Sometimes we may go to several sources to get a more round knowledge on a subject when we are overcoming a situation but in the end what solution we have come to is based on this knowledge.

Take for instance the new guy on the web building experience. He may rely on many things that he reads to gain an understanding of what he is doing but he is no expert. He merely has learned enough to get something accomplished. When he has a snag in the process of building the code he must return to these trusted sources he has accumulated in order to overcome whatever it is that he is facing.

When I rely on a so called authority or this or that said expert I am still limited. I am limited to what knowledge they have and the truthfulness and fullness of how they assist you. In fact if you are following someone else’s instruction they may make you look worse than you did trying it yourself.

Always remember one thing, I think that people in hard situations learn this, trust your own judgement. If you are great friends with someone they are more likely to tell you the correct way and if they don’t know are willing to share that lil’ tid bit with you also. They can help you with what you are going through in any event with an honest solid opinion.

Please be careful who you reach to when you are looking to improve.

It’s been a ongoing thing with my daughter we never seem to agree on anything .She acts like I owe her for all that has gone wrong in her life .Even though I did what  a parent is suppose to do and say “no”,”stop that “,”If you do that one more time”? …………I could ever hardly get her to stay home ,stop smoking cigarettes,wear some different clothes ,It always came down to “What she had to have”? or she would do something to frustrate me in order to give in just for her to leave me alone ,that was not good, I know.! she was at an age to where I stop spanking them .How old is to old to spank ?I chose the age 13 ,WTF? Is that to old ?Should I have been more strict?I was a  single parent ,raising 4 kids and worked 2 jobs to provide for them with a ,home,food,shoes,tiolet paper,the list goes on and on ………. That is called the cycle of life ,Now she acts like .I’m suppose to provide for her and my grandson,I dont want to be mean and so “no” all the time ,but is that ”WHAT BEING A GRANPARENT  CONSISTS OF?”IM going to post short stories like this thru out this site .I hope they can be read by mothers or  daughters or there son, If they can relate in some shape,form,or fashion from:lucyhttp://lucys.catcodesigns.net/